Tuesday, June 9, 2009

I DARE ALL HUSBANDS

Hubby’s take this challenge and see if you are successful.

This is a guaranteed method to improving your sex life…

When you get home from work give your wifey a cuddle. Help her with the kids – even just a teeny bit. Empty the rubbish bin if it’s full. Be loving towards your kids and use positive words with them. Don’t grope your wife while she is making dinner or washing dishes – give her a warm hug and a deeply meaningful kiss and tell her you love her. Help her with dinner if you can, set the table or help clean up afterwards. If she says she can manage it don’t get offended – she’s not used to your help…

She will shut herself up tighter than a clam if you come home tired and irritable and park your butt in the lounge to watch your favourite sports show and drink 6 beers. Remember if she works a full day she is also tired, the same for stay home moms. It is part of a woman’s nature to put others first – especially if she is a wife and mother. Give her a tiny bit of the same treatment – she deserves it after all.
The words you choose to use in talking to her and your children play a HUGE role in how she feels and responds to you. Harsh words and irritable attitudes will get you nowhere – fast. Women respond to kindness and gentleness. Women come alive when they hear how much they are loved and appreciated. Women are not as visual as men are. Women need time to prepare mentally for sex, men don’t. Especially after a day of work at the office or at home with the kids, we need time to unwind a little. A bit of romance will work wonders. Nothing major – make her a cup of tea or pour her a glass of wine when the kids are in bed, set a bit of a mood. Or offer to put them to bed so she can go and have a bath. YES! That is romantic to a full time mother.
These are just some the small things that actually turn a woman on. Silly as that may seem, it is true.

Remember we are not microwave ovens that can just be turned on at a push of a button – we are like conventional ovens and we take time to warm up. And if you turn the wrong dials your end result can be a disaster. But if you take the time to use the proper buttons and dials we will respond warmly and you will end up having a sweet sticky pudding in the end.

But don’t do it with the intention of getting lucky – do it just to make her feel loved. If you don’t “get any” a sulk and a tantrum will simply undo everything you have tried to accomplish. Especially if it is a new side to you that she has never seen, she will be suspicious and will be waiting to see an ulterior motive. Show her you don’t have one.
When it comes to bedtime hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you – even if she falls asleep there.

A little bit of TLC (as the cliché goes) will go a long way to improving your sex life.

If you keep this up for a few days your wife will begin to see you in a totally different way and you – husbands – will begin to reap the reward. Hopefully it will become a permanent change in your marriage and you will reap the reward regularly…

Try it – I dare you…

2 comments:

angel said...

:D
A little really does go a long way!

Brigitte said...

I forgot to mention that these are some of the sweet things my Hubby does for me...